What not to do on Valentine’s big date or any date, especially if it is your first!
Don’t be late
Assuming that since men are supposed to be 10 minutes early on dates then you should show up at least 10 minutes later because you don’t want to show needy, is very wrong. He will love it and will be very surprised if you don’t let him wait out all alone in the cold.
He asked you out, you are single, you wanted to know him better, you agreed on this date. What does ‘’don’t show needy’’ mean except for selfish?
He asked you out, you are single, you wanted to know him better, you agreed on this date. What does ‘’don’t show needy’’ mean except for selfish?
Don’t touch your cell phone
Texting or checking your Facebook profile while he is talking to you is the worst thing you can do on a date especially if it’s your first date and Valentine’s.
It is by far the worst way you could treat him it will probably turn him off. Keep it in your bag and check it once an hour. Or turn it off. He will love the fact that you put it aside for him.
It is by far the worst way you could treat him it will probably turn him off. Keep it in your bag and check it once an hour. Or turn it off. He will love the fact that you put it aside for him.
Don’t just answer his questions
Ask some too. Don’t act like the hot celebrity that is being interviewed by talking constantly and answering his questions. Try not to talk too much or at least talk as much as he does.
If you want a smooth conversation and him happy, try to ask a question the minute you answer one. Find things in common or ask back the same question and do nothing else than listening. He will adore you!
Don’t show too much skin
It depends on where your date is going to take place but have as a rule of thumb that your outfit shouldn’t be too revealing. It might either scare him away or give him the wrong messages.
In any case, keep a sexy but elegant look and instead let your body language give him the correct messages and not your skin.
In any case, keep a sexy but elegant look and instead let your body language give him the correct messages and not your skin.
Don’t do it
Having sex on this date just because it’s Valentine’s is not only risky if this is your first date but also very unromantic. This day is not about sex, at least not only about sex, it’s about mystery, candles, romantic words and slow music.
Let it come naturally if you want it so much but by rushing to get him to bed, you may miss what this day is all about.
Let it come naturally if you want it so much but by rushing to get him to bed, you may miss what this day is all about.
Don’t drink too much
If you really like this guy, that is. Two drinks with alcohol is the most you should drink if you wish for a great time without doing things you will probably regret the next day.
And it’s not only sex you might regret. Sometimes talking too much, saying the wrong things, making a scene or becoming a fool of yourself is way more embarrassing than sleeping with someone you shouldn’t.
Don’t expect him to pay the bill
Go Dutch and he will go crazy for you. When he finds out that you don’t like stereotypes and that you are not one more passive and selfish girl but a dynamic, modern woman that finds natural to share bills, he will also get the message that you will probably want to share the dreams, concerns and challenges in his life!
Don’t talk about bad things in your life
Your ex, your freaking roommate, your stupid boss and your raise that never comes. No doubt these are very good stories for your blog but not for your date on Valentine’s!
Actually, you should keep your mouth shut when it comes to negative things and keep the conversation positive, happy and interesting. Talk about traveling, dreams, ask him questions and keep that gorgeous smile on your face.
Happy Valentine’s Gorgeous!
Now, don't forget to get him something nice or if you haven't got a date find out if you should ask him out on Valentine’s or make him ask you!
Happy Valentine’s Gorgeous!
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